Why do some cling to patriarchal systems? Some men want return to old ways to assist them in getting a keeping a wife that can’t leave. Tied into a system they’re taught to believe was created by god to procreate children. That being a wife and a mom should fulfill them. But what this creates is two lives without growth. This imbalance of power will stifle them both.

Men have to learn that coercion of women will not get them love, because love’s freely given. Love can’t be forced or kept in a cage. We must move forward into a new age. A man must respect and show love to attract a woman who stays for true love not an act. And together support the dreams of each other. If that’s a career or a father and mother. They can grow and expand because they are free. All can become who they’re meant to be.